Hi Peaceful,

I wish I could feel as sure as you that my H will one day come back. Some days (or moments) I feel that "knowing" and other days I think "no way in hell!".

I question the "knowing" feeling - wondering if it's just more of the grieving process, the letting go and accepting of the loss. But then I think, no matter what I have to grieve the loss of our marriage AS IT WAS, I have to grieve my H AS HE WAS. I'm certain that we would have to re-build from ground zero to ever have a chance.

Anyway, thaks for your post. I wish you well.



Monica

My sitch:
Me 40
H 30
M 8 yrs
1 S5.5
Bomb Oct 2005
Sep Nov 2005
H w/ Ow
I filed for LS June 2007
H responded w/ D 2007
I have sole P custody, joint L
Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers