I wish I could feel as sure as you that my H will one day come back. Some days (or moments) I feel that "knowing" and other days I think "no way in hell!".
I question the "knowing" feeling - wondering if it's just more of the grieving process, the letting go and accepting of the loss. But then I think, no matter what I have to grieve the loss of our marriage AS IT WAS, I have to grieve my H AS HE WAS. I'm certain that we would have to re-build from ground zero to ever have a chance.
Anyway, thaks for your post. I wish you well.
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers