Hey Monica, I too am wondering what I am going to feel when he comes back, because HE WILL COME BACK! See, that is positive thinking! In DR Michele talks about the resentment we may feel when they come back. I figure that out when I get there.
I also have been struggling with, "Why am I trying so hard for a man that threw everything away so easily?"
I think that must be part of detaching. It helps us to let go and GAL. It's not really a question I can answer when people (i.e. my mother ) ask it. It is just a feeling I have a knowing I guess.
When he comes back, it will be on my terms and we will have a stronger relationship for the trouble. That is worth all the work I am doing now.
Peaceful ~ I believe in true and everlasting love. Me 33 SO 38 D 10
See, that is positive thinking! In DR Michele talks about the resentment we may feel when they come back. I figure that out when I get there.
) ask it. It is just a feeling I have a knowing I guess.
