Andy -- thanks for sending me to Matilda's thread. I see what you were getting at, and a lot of that discussion seems so familiar. Fred's biggest problem is that he will not allow himself to be vulnerable enough to be intimate. That's what this is all about, I think -- what he needs to work on and what I cannot help him with.

It's all in the ebb and flow -- our lives are so crazy these days. It's a no wonder people can't connect. I think it takes all the strength we have just get up and face the day, sometimes!

Thanks for all your support and insight, Andy. Know that you have my support whenever you need it! [Smile]

wilma


I learn by going where I have to go. ~Theodore Roethke