How do I behave around my cheating husband?

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Just want to say that at one point my H wouldn't hardly look at me or say anything to me. And the things he was saying to her (on texts of his phone) were incredible. It was like he never loved me, and has only loved her. He knew her before me and they dated for 6 months. We got pregnant right in the beginning and never got a chance to fall in love really. And ever since the beginning, I've always felt that he never truely loved me. It took him 4 years to marry me after we had our S and he lived in a whole other state the whole time.

So, don't lose hope yet. Although my sitch has been going thru phases really fast compared to others on here (A started 1-30-06 and he's asked to be alone for this month but he's been texting me everyday and totally talking about us making love and him thinking I look hot-have sent a couple sexy pics to him- and he wants us to come back home after July. I really don't know if we'll really get back together, but where we are at right now, is way way better then where we were!

So my point to all this is, even though he acts like he doesn't love you at all, you just keep it up, it may just take him longer to figure things out... aren't you guys pretty young? My husband is almost 33, so maybe your H is just gonna take a while because he's younger and probably doesn't even really know himself and never has yet.

Just keep looking good and having fun and displaying that to him. Maybe you shouldn't ask him very many questions about himself, and instead be preoccupied with all the new things your doing. Just MHO. Eventually my H seemed to start getting a little jealous, even though that's not how he is, because I was hinting around about other men talking to me and thinking I was hot when I would go out, and that I liked it. I think that is what really started the ball moving in my court. not sure though.

Anyways, stay strong and be the most beautiful person you can be, inside and out!