Thanks for dropping by, tree.

I guess there are some dreams that simply aren’t realistic. Gotta give up on those ones. If they turn out to be feasible later, then great, but in the mean time, I gotta come up with some new ones.

Fatigue, stress, hormones, iron levels… Who knows? Loss of libido can be caused by these, and certainly by R problems. All I can do is to work on the R issues, and hope that W will look into the others.

Does she still feel resentment? I don’t think so [Big Grin] You’d be amazed at the progress we’ve made on that front!!! In any case, I don’t think the resentment ever was due to me bringing home the bacon. She’s always said that she appreciated that. I think the resentment was due to her perception that I didn’t appreciate what she was up against, and that I controlled everything – including her. That has all appeared to have changed.

There are a few knee-jerk reactions that indicate things have been forgiven but not forgotten, but on sober reconsideration, she usually sees these for what they are.

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Originally posted by treesa2:

And hey... fireworks once in a while... as long as it is sincere... that's gotta be a step in the right direction.
Yeah.

Gotta go now, all of a sudden, I’m being swamped with work.

Andy

Andy