Peaceful ~ I can relate to your pain! It's totally surreal...the acceptance process is agonizingly slow. It is still so difficult to believe that this is "us", that H is w/ Ow and seems to be putting down some roots. He seems less ambivalent and more comfortable with our separation.
Tomorrow is our 8th anniversary (of the day we met) and H has agreed to pick up S3.5 from preschool and bring him home (here). I'm anxious about seeing him on our anniversary, it was always a wonderfully special day.
Well, I agree with Lizemba - it gets better. GAL, stay busy, and keep my mouth shut is what works for me.
I'm exhausted - started a new job today and I'm beat.
Keep in touch ~
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers