Dear Peaceful & Lizemba,

I'm glad to read your posts...

Peaceful ~ I can relate to your pain! It's totally surreal...the acceptance process is agonizingly slow. It is still so difficult to believe that this is "us", that H is w/ Ow and seems to be putting down some roots. He seems less ambivalent and more comfortable with our separation.

Tomorrow is our 8th anniversary (of the day we met) and H has agreed to pick up S3.5 from preschool and bring him home (here). I'm anxious about seeing him on our anniversary, it was always a wonderfully special day.

Well, I agree with Lizemba - it gets better. GAL, stay busy, and keep my mouth shut is what works for me.

I'm exhausted - started a new job today and I'm beat.

Keep in touch ~


Monica

My sitch:
Me 40
H 30
M 8 yrs
1 S5.5
Bomb Oct 2005
Sep Nov 2005
H w/ Ow
I filed for LS June 2007
H responded w/ D 2007
I have sole P custody, joint L
Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers