Oh Monica, I am so there with you girl! I can add nothing, but wanted to let you know that there is another person out here feeling all the grief, anger, anguish that you are tonight. It has to get better. How long have you been "letting it go" with the lies? It might be time to just call him on it and calmly tell him you feel disrespected when you are given excuses and that it would hurt you less to hear the truth and that you would even prefer him not giving you an explaination than a lie. Just use your "I" sentences, remain calm and do not engage him in an arguement. When he denies that he has been lying, and he will, just agree and say you're glad to know that he will continue to tell you the truth or not say anything at all.
What do you think?
Peaceful ~ I believe in true and everlasting love. Me 33 SO 38 D 10
