How do I behave around my cheating husband?

[Peaceful]

Hi there! I have been wondering the same things, feeling the same things. It is making it too easy for H?

I am feeling VERY sad right now. I just talked to H's best friend/roommate. I make a point of not digging for info on H from him as we are also friends.

This has worked well for 5 weeks. Then tonight it drifted that way and he told me that H seems happy with OW and in general. He also told me that it makes sense that H would be happy because H doesn't have to live in reality right now and can be "someone else" for awhile.

We finally got off the phone because "they" (H and OW) were home.

I am trying so hard not to think negative thoughts and cry and basically freak out!

I asked my friend this question, is letting him have his space to do his thing making it easy on him? He said yes, probably, for now. Then gave me the whatever will be will be speach. Damn him for being right.

He, thinks it is "quaint" of me to be saving myself and waiting for H and taking the marriage vows seriously when I am the only one in the marriage. Quaint or not, here I am determined!