Which goes back to how can I listen if she won't talk [Big Grin] !

So...DB aproach is....you leave her ALONE about it. You act as if. You do what you do and back off already.

That's really the DB approach and you wanna know how I know? Cause of the big wall that comes up to explain why that's NOT the thing that could/should be done.

But think about how that last thread went. The harder some of us pushed and explained, the harder you pushed & explained your side. So on so forth etc... Did we ever accomplish anything?

Funny cause just another nite IGgy said "wish me luck on this truck...wait a minute, I know that's not gonna happen because I know where you stand on it". Yep, that's one of our big long standing debates. And guess how it's evolved to that point? I stopped talking about it either way but make sure he deals with the consequenses for his choices. It's taken a long long time.

And before you go there, we have the same stuff over his health. Same stuff applies. [Smile] . There are better ways to stay engaged with one another...you know what I mean Vern?