I am aware that what you say is true. However, in my case, it was a major accomplishment just to get my wife to go and get checked out by a gynecologist. Even then, I'm fairly certan that she did not mention her lack of sexual drive (which is why it took several months for the Dr. to determine the need to prescribe the Progesterone--he can only treat symptoms he knows about--he only knows what she tells him) My wife was in denial and refused to believe she had a hormone imbalance caused by menopause. She didn't even think she was going through menopause.
I will wait with patience. If the OB/GYN determines that testosterone is also needed, I'm sure it will be prescribed. My suggestion to her that it might be needed would surely be met with opposition simply based upon the fact that the suggestion was made by me.
I believe ANS should consider it a step in the right direction that his wife has agreed to have the blood test. She might oppose any suggestion by him but would probably tend to agree with the doctor's diagnosis.