Tongight we are attending our first family function on my side since the A and separation. My W is still upset about my parents not comfortable with her. That started a big OR talk. W began to withdraw and is still trying to justify the A and can't figure out why my folks are still pissed at her.
When I tried to explain why, she got pissed at me. Go figure. She started to get into us disagreeing. I told her that we were not disagreeing, but just sharing our feelings.
She is still trying to justify what she has done as being her only option. Even goes so far as to say that I made her have the A. I admitted to allowing the marriage to deteriorate to the point that made it possible for her to choose an A.
Things have been going real well for the past weeks. I hope that she can get past this setback.