John, Sounds like things went pretty well with the visit to your parents. Did they warm up to your W any? Hope that seeing that you had forgiven her and you were happy to have her back in your life,they forgave her too. Your advice is good for others. You were smart to "live" the changes and not just "talk" change!! Things take time and a lot of people get impatient and push too hard. You did good and I was so HAPPY to hear that your divorce is BUSTED!!!!!!! [Big Grin] Keep up the good work and the best to you and your family!! pfroglady