I explained to my W that she must be completely honest with me in order for this to work. She agreed. Oh yes, her excuse was that it wasn't important and she wasn't sure how I would react. Bullshit.

She was genuinely upset about the call and she really badmouthed him after the call. We immediately changed her cell number and blocked private calls on our caller ID.

W asked me if I was going to make her grovel because of this. I told her not to be rediculous. I'm just hurt because the trust has been violated again.

rayanne, your advice is sound. You're obviously better at fixing other people's stuff. [Wink] I'm not going to blow this out of proportion. We've come so far!

Btw, this weekend I'm taking W to meet with my parents who haven't spoken to her since this whole thing started. I expect it to be pretty emotional.

Thanks for the replies.