At 7 am this morning XOM called the house and announced to me that my W has been calling his W. My W got on the extension and accused him of being a liar. I got really angry and told him to stay away from my family and hung up on the low-life.
After the call, W told me that XOM’s W called her this week and that XOM came around her workplace to talk to her recently. W was really upset and seemed genuinely sorry about the incident. What really got me was that W lied to me. I asked her last week if she had any contact with OM and she denied it. When confronted, she said that she didn’t want to hurt me and nothing happened anyway.
I began to talk to her about rebuilding trust and how important honesty is in our relationship. I told her that if I couldn’t trust her, I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be married to her. Well, this must have scared her because she called me twice at work today to tell me that she loved me.
This morning I changed her cell phone number and I’m going to change the phone number in the house. I also told her that if he showed at her workplace again, I will ask her to quit her job.
