H has no desire and I have no libido

[Jen_Jam]

Wow Lust thank you for a speedy reply.
Our R is now good - H says it's "how it should be" and our MC descibed us as "not a couple in crisis". We have a wonderful friendship and love and care for each other.
We got back together after a 2 month sep but I did not tackle the fact I don't like sex. We had sex about 3 times between November 2005 and now.
I for one feel very little sexually - occasional flashes is the best way I would descibe it.
I don't know if H feels it in general - I hope to find out.
There is no OM for me and H doesn't have an OW - he says not and there is no evidence for it.
Sexual fantasies - I can only speak for myself here. No, I don't. I don't feel attracted to anyone. I don't want to have sex with anyone at all. I feel that it's slightly dirty - a really stupid thing I know and I hope to purge myself of that. I am capable of being sexual, but not in the long term. I would like to change myself.