Thanks for checking in on me.. if you have a chance read my threads in NEWCOMERS and how WE are simliar and see if my mistakes will help you see JEALOUSY is poison and will take you absolutely, positively,NOWHERE.
I have read your thread and will admit to you honey Ive been there done that and what you are doing is focusing on the problem not the solution.
Find yourself , be strong stop thinking about her,, I do it once in awhile tooo , but you are above that. She has no right to consume your thoughts whatever he said to her in the past was said due to infatuation not real lasting love. Let it go and be happy.
Make him feel special,, take time for you two and let the past go. ( it will not happen overnite but you can do it))
God Bless... Ill keep in touch.