Just finished your thread cat. Looks like you and I have so much in common its scary. I too was an incurable snoop. I still do on occasion, but I'm fighting the urge much better these days.
I even went so far as to install a program on the W's computer that forwarded me all the email she recieved and sent. Let me tell you - I wish to God I had never seen a lot of the things I saw. Its so hard to not compare how my W reacts to me to how she reacted to OM. Those thoughts and feelings are stuck in my head now. I wish I never would have gone there - Too Much Information is a bad thing.
I've added you to my favorites as I beleive that you and I may be traveling this long road together and I hope that we can support each other.
And let me just say, OMG the thought of waiting a year for my W to respond to me in an emotional way scares the hell out of me. How does one keep moving along in a positive way waiting for that to happen?
