Am reading your thread after you posted on mine and just had to tell you that you and I are exactly in the same boat. I could have written this quote myself:
Yes, he does mention how he is here and I almost want to say "so what, your mind is on Mars"
Maybe a different planet, but I feel exactly the same way. It's like my W thinks I should be overjoyed that "she's here" even without any emotional connection.
