Cat...they like jealousy but it has it's place....like when your out and some woman starts flirting with your husband and you step up and say "He's with me!"...that boosts the ego...
But finding a piece of paper and making a mountain out of mole hill....or digging up the past.....that makes them angry...
About the shorts....if you are recently back together....or if you know there WAS an affair...just keep your mouth shut....at the very most just ask "Do you want to keep these?".....
We have to stop being jealous about things that are OVER...and listen to your gut....if your snooping and it is telling you to stop it is because you really have NO REASONABLE REASON except for fear....and a marriage or relationship ruled by fear is doomed....
So starting today....stop being affraid....stop looking for reasons to be jealous....and rejoice in the fact that you still have a relationship to put back together!
