sort of new here..WAH came back,I feel so unloved

[cat03]

So...all you snoopers....make a commitment to yourself... and to your marriages....quit snooping....unless something totally jumps out at you as being wrong and you feel it in your 'gut'....just let it go....don't look for trouble, anger, anxiety, hurt, pain, depression, guilt, and all those other negative things you will find when snooping....if it is in the past....let it stay there and move on

OK, you are all right, as I was-again-this weekend looking everywhere I heard a little voice in my head saying "stop it" I didnt' listen to it , but it is a start.

I promise, to rip whatever piece of paper I find that i think is "evidence", I won't let the past craziness win over me. It isnt' easy since my H is a bit messy and leaves all sorts of things around. While doing "laundry" on the spare room I found shorts that look like they are a womans', I'll ask him about it today and I"m REALLY trying to calm myself so I dont' sound like the jelous woman from hell.

It it true that men hate jelous women?