Quote: He's found me twice on the room where he keeps his stuff and suspects something, he is slowly opening up and my meddleing doesn't help, I find it near impossible to stop snooping! I know is bad, I will try hard to stop.
I know where you are coming from. I asked my wife to get rid of anything that might hurt me, i.e. phone numbers. She did her best. I snooped and found some names and I was upset and brought it up to her in a whiney manner. I didn't help me.
Ask your husband to dispose of anything that might hurt you. There is nothing that you change about the past. Let it go. I hope that you two can attend Retrouvaille.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
