Husband says he wants to work on marriage instead of putting the kids through a divorce. He wants me to know too that just because he has made this decision that it doesn't mean he loves me again or will one day. We never did stop having sex and he never moved out. Just one day told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore. I think he's fighting his feelings and doesn't WANT to love me anymore but still has a small shred of love left. However, he has told me at any time I've gotten a hint of encouragement that it "doesn't mean anything". He even told me he had feelings for me one day when I asked him why he was still having sex with me. We've been married for 19 years. I've been applying DB techniques since February and he has noticed the changes, although he's convinced they won't last. I want him to fall in love with me again.
