My imagination is running away with me again. Tll me Pat, did it take a long time for your H to start treating you the way he did before the A? OR does he yet? Mine is still distant-maybe alot of it is my own insecurities,but how do you know if its that or if he's still having contact with her? How do you get past all this?? I want to move on and stop thinking about it,but its like I have to have some kind of reassurance that all this is not just a farce-that we're together,but he's rather be with her. Its how he acts towards me that gets me thinking this way. Cool, not saying or doing all the things he used to before the A. I have nothing to go on except that he's here and I'm not always sure its where he wants to be. My PMA is down the drain today. SOrry. Rachael M.
