I think my H would like laot of those things! I know he would like to be greeted at least with a smile and a kiss and a "How was your day?" This I am doing every day now. I frequently tell him that I missed him during the day,becasue its true. I love being with him. Its when I feel at my best. He actaully says it back to me, so it must mean he thinks about me. I am trying not to go by his office too much during the day. THings are crazy at his office-He's a contractor, and he's usually on the phone or constantly being interrupted by someone coming in his office while I'm there. He's the boss man so he has to deal with it! HE likes massgaes too! That is something new we started doing since he came home-with baby oil. I don't know if its somethin he did with OW-I doubt it because I was the one that started it. Even so, I'm sure its better between he and I! I do need to be more vocal about appreciating him and being proud of him. He needs that affirmation wether he beleives he does or not. Who wouldn't? SO...I'm glad you told me those things! I'll start tonight-and make it a point to say something affirming to him every day no matter what. He LOVES to be appreciated-that's a biggie for him. I know he did not feel it at all when he went into the A. I was blind, and I took him for granted. A hard lesson, but well learned. If you have any ther tidbits let me know! One thing I do is I exercise in fron of him EVERY night-I do 300 crunches and stretching excercies and even back bends! Yes, I can still do them! I have kept by body in shape and I think he really apprecaites that. Lets him know that I'm doing something consistently too. I'm usually in something slinky too! I've heard men are stimulated visually, so I figure it a good way to get my excercise and stimulate him at the same time! I'm off to lunch! Rachael M.
