I started greeting my H at the door when he got home from work with a smile,a hug,a kiss,a drink and a "how was your day?" He really seemed to appreciate that. Used to when he was late getting home I didn't even greet him at the door. I also started giving him foot rubs (he REALLY loves those :-)!!). I will ocassionally give him a massage. Sometimes it leads to sex,sometimes it doesn't. I will ocassionally mail him a card or love letter to work and I also send him email cards (sometimes very provocative sometimes just telling him I love him). I give him coupons for everything...special dinners,back rubs,foot rubs,breakfast in bed,sex,hugs,kisses and sometimes coupons that just tell him they are good for all the love I have to give. Not knowing your H I don't know if he'd like these things or not. Mine seems to appreciate them. He isn't very romantic but he sure seems to appreciate romance :-) !! I always make sure to tell him that I am proud of him,I appreciate him and I care about him!! Little things seem to really mean a lot to him.