Thanks Pat! Wow the e-mail thing would have hurt me too. Luckily my H hates it and does not even have it. Your right though-it was wrong, and your in the same boat as me as far as choosing to beleive they are being honest. This is BY FAR the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. Ok....21 days! Since he was so nice in reasurring me today I want to be extra attentive to him tonight. HE has this need to be appreciated (don't we all?) so what are some little things I can say or do that let him know how much I appreciate him. Not sex...he suspects I use that as a tool, but he's beginning to understand that I've really changed in that dept. Come on, I know alot of you have been creative in showing your appreciation in different ways! I need some ideas please! Rachael
