pfroglady, your reply to me was so sweet and heartfelt it brought tears to my eyes! Yes, I do believe my DB efforts have paid off and continue to do so. I had to change my act, I was on a collision course and didn't even know it! I would have sworn just 5 minutes before my H's "bomb" that he loved me. How naive. I was really wearing blinders. Never again. Thanks for your encouragement. Lisa
