About that picture of the XOW, how about having it blown up and then going to the park and picking up dog poop with it
I know things will "just keep getting better" for you two. I do hope you'll continue to drop by and lend your ear to those of us who are still in the process of piecing it back together.
Please read my thread about my conversation with H last night. I wish I could make my H feel like a king when he comes home. I've tried -- even through all my pain, I've tried, but apparently he sees me as a daily reminder of who he "really" is. Not my fault, he says. It's all him. I don't know. I just don't know.