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Originally posted by ANS:

Fake it ‘til you make it, but work towards making this your reality. It’s crucial.
You are so right Andy. I never realized the true power of positive thinking until I started to see the results of all my DBing coming around. Making things that you want to happen come true is VERY empowering!

I am looking forward to reading your thread (when my boss isn't looking [Big Grin] )

I did good at lunch - kept myself busy and when he called after lunch was over I didn't ask about his lunch or "her" at all. I was upbeat and kept the conversation lite. BUT I still had the urge to ask - I guess like you said, it will go away with a lot of practice.

I ready Michele's article on Forgiveness and it was helpful to me. I am going to try & stay focused on the positive things. He tells me that I have nothing to worry about and I have to give him the benefit of the doubt and not "go at him with the boxing gloves on"

I feel better for now - lunch is over [Big Grin] . Tomorrow is another day BUT IT'S FRIDAY and that's a good thing. I look forward to a nice weekend with H.

Thanks again Andy [Big Grin]