Hi purple,

I think you've answered your own question.

Just keep acting as-if his friendship doesn't bug you.

BUT

You hafta stop letting it bug you, too.

Part-2 of acting as-if is to convert the "as if" behavior into thinking. Only you can do that.

So, don't let H knows this bugs you, and stop letting it bug you. You're not being naive by doing this.

IMHO, an EA that he cut short is nothing to worry about.

She's now nothing more than a friend who happens to be female. You have to believe that.

All you have to do is to be a better friend. In order to do that, you have to let go of the suspicion.

Don't "focus". Just go with the flow.

Andy

Andy