I'm glad to hear that things are "cool"now. Yeah, it is time to go with the flow. I think that sometimes we get so caught up in DB'ing and looking for all the "little signs" that we forget to just be happy with what we've got right in front of us. For you, you've got a W who's there with you and still trying to figure things out. Can you really expect a whole lot more?
Nobody said that if you DB'd your butt off that things would be perfect and you'd live happily ever after. Unless you consider the fact that you're still married, you know your W cares for you and is trying to make sense of everything -- maybe that is happily ever after, after all! Who knows.
