Thanks for all the advice everyone. Sorry if I don’t respond to each poster individually. It’s all thought provoking stuff, and very useful.

But, I think that at this point, I have to rein in my thoughts. Things are pretty cool right now, so I don’t think it’s time to stir the pot.

Yes, I have a lot of hurt from things W said and did. Do I really want to know if she’s posturing/placating?

I guess the answer is yes as long as the answer is “posturing.” Problem is that I don’t even know if W knows. She tells me things because she wants to be honest, and wants me to know that my past behavior has consequences. Unfortunately, I cannot use this information. I cannot unring the bell.

I’ve DB’d my butt off, and all of you long time readers of my threads know how disappointed I was when I found out how little effect it had on W. I’ve gone back to the drawing board several times.

I guess it’s just time to go with the flow.

TTFN,
Andy


Andy