Frankly, I'd want it. My W has told me things that range from (and I paraphrase) "You're a controlling person. I'm not going to let you jack me around anymore" to "I really appreciate all that you've done for me and our family."
I wish I could read hermind just long enough to figure out if she's posturing to get what she wants, or placating me out of sympathy.
The ttile of my thread is "How can I listen if she won’t talk?", but the other problem is that when she talks, how do I know if she really means it?
