Hi Andy - you know I've mentioned a time or two that you remind me of my H sometimes. And this subject is one of those times.
It's frustrating isn't it? Do you form your thoughts before she's done talking? Do you start talking the second she's finished her last word? Do you start going off on a subject until she just throws her hands up?
I just wonder because those are some of the things IGgy does still. What seems to work for him (for me) is if he acnowledges what I've said. That's really about it. Just that he acnowledges it. Even if it's just - I heard what you said. I don't understand it -or- I don't know how to respond -or- this is my opinion, would you listen?
That way you aren't trying to think 3 steps ahead and she doesn't feel like she could be reciting the phone listings to you for the same response.
Also, I know that IGgy tends to over think/work/do things and messes himself up. Then he gets mad outwardly for his own stuff. Sound like something that makes sense?
Hope that helps. Also, I gave IGgy a copy of that quote you posted on my thread. He really really liked it so thank you again. You take care and SLOW DOWN!!!!
