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That is so www.marriagebuilders.com

Another good web site. Lots and lots of questionnaire's for the W and H to use to evaluate where they are and where they want to go with the M.






You pegged it in one!

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I find deflection and "I am different and entitled to my own opinion" to be the 2 huge problem.




Want to post some conversational examples? So we can pick it apart and give you our unprofessional opinions?

Lou, when you have been together with someone as long as you have with BB (NOP and I are coming up on 30 years together) both of you can get into conversational/relational ruts. One way to get out of those is to start changing what you are saying/doing.

It's as hard for you to do as it is for her.

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