I don't want to give the impression that Andy's house is rife with tension. It's not. We certainly can, and do spend quiet time together. Admittedly, there's not enough of this. As I mentioned, 4 kids, and one particularly disruptive handicapped kid don't make for serene surroundings.
My dilemma is that when we do communicate, we both get caught up in what we think the other is thinking. We know each other well enough to have a pretty good idea of each other's patterns of thought.
BUT
Those patterns are changing! We're just having an hard time figuring each other out.
We both have a lot to say. Just can't get the message accross.
