..."Just hafta keep in mind that a constant stream of OR talks promotes an oppressive atmosphere."....
You said it, ANS. Don't let words get in the way. How about some time just enjoying silence together? Would that make you uncomfortable?
Maybe you're putting too much importance on this verbal communication thing. Feelings are sometimes best expressed by actions...a look, a smile, a touch...that sort of thing. What do you think?
..."Firstly, we have too little time to express our feelings. .....Should we spend our only “couples” time hashing out our feelings? How can that bring us closer together?"...
You know the answer to that one. Appreciate the time you have together, and enjoy it, ANS. Sit back and relax, and don't worry if W doesn't want to talk. Some people are more reserved than others...some people are quiet a lot of the time, and speak only when they have something to say....I came from an entire family of people like that...*smile*...
Don't know if this helps or not...just a thought...keep smiling....R8
