Well we spent yet another good weekend together.One of the kids was sick so she brought her over at 2 in the mornign both mornings and stayed the rest of the night and went home the next day to take a shower and then came back.We ate supper saturday night and both meals sunday at my house.It's funny because if she wants something she just goes and gets it or if she wants to cook she just does it.Hell if she wants to move furniture she does that too.She stayed until 9:00 last night and went back to her apt.She says she isn't ready to work on anything yet but she did hint that she was trying to get some feelings.She is taking the kids and nephews and a girlfriend and her kids on vacation in a couple of weeks.I haven't made a big deal about it.I have decided to leave the day after she gets back to go to New Mexico hunting for a week somaybe the time apart will do some good.I think I will offer to let her stay at the house so she can take care of the dog and the girls can have their stuff.I really think that she wants to come back someday,if I can wait that long.It's weird for a XW to do all these things unless she wants something in the future.