Thanks for you're reply,we had a ok weekend after a stormy friday.XW came and got some of her stuffthat was let at my house becauseshe was pissed after one of those damn OR talks that always sneak up on me.But that night she called and sked if I needed any empty boxes and I thanked her but said no.As the world turns so does she.She went shopping and ate dinner with me and the kids saturday and then when I took the girls to her on sunday I stayed and ate dinner and then she wanted to go shopping,so we ended up spending the afternoon together and I went back last night to pick up one of my kids and she asked me to rub her back because it was bothering her.I really think she is just as scared of being apart as I am.I did tell her friday that I just didn't know what her expetations were of me and she said she didn't either thats what the problem was.wait and see wait and see
