Well didn't have such a good noon hour.Got into a OR talk because XW says she isn't ready for a relationship but we spend most weekends together and several times during the week,we are not physical but we get along just fine.She said she was tired of the arguing and this is something I must work on I know,the only time we argue is when we are apart and the only thing it is about is OR.She said she doesn't even want to be friends now,and she has said this before but she comes back.I told her that think about it for a few days and then let me know and we will go from there.A couple of weeks ago she ask me to wait if she could give me what she could and I could give her space and I said that was fine.I am almost to the point that I want to tell her to get her stuff out and start paying the rent she is supposed to be paying to me and then she can do whatever she wants and then maybe she will see how good she has it.She did say this weekend that she knew that I had always been nice to her through the whole thing.She wants and wants but doesn't want to give.It's kind of turned around because when we were unger I was just getting out of a R and she wanted to get in one and I kind of blew her off and then we ended up together.What should I do?
