You know if you pull away and make yourself unavailable she'll wonder what's up and she'll come running. Not sure how you're surviving without sex because you've obviously invested a whole lot in this relationship. That saying (at least from my experience-as a woman-is true) the more you have the more you want it and the less you have the less you want it. Sorry, you probably didn't want to hear that.
Things suck for me right now. We had a big fight this a.m. and it just makes me feel like we really haven't come any further than before. Same old stuff: money, lack of money, my career, him accusing me of leaving for some mysterious OM. Sorry, I'm not too cheery right now.
But, I still think you have a good chance of getting back together! Be good or at least have some fun. Life is too short for all this Bull.
