Violet, Great to hear from you and hope all is well.Yes I agree that being in limbo sucks.I have asked her about this and she says it's not me but it is all in her head.I wish she would get conseling.She called last night and wanted me to go shopping with her and the kids and I wasn't home so she paged and I didn't hear the pager until later and then I called her cell and she told me what she wanted and started asking where I was and then she called me a couple of more times to ask me questions.She keeps saying that we have to be friends again first and that is fine.The only thing is that I didn't want this relationship to start like our first one where she had a crush on me and basicly used sex to keep me interested until I fell for her,too bad she won't letme do this.She wants me to ask her out but yet she won't go out on a date so I keep trying.I am trying to give myself a time limit if things don't change but don't know what to do.
