Another ok weekend,XW spent quite a bit of time at my house,not as much as usual because some friends she knew were in town.I started to backslide into an OR talk but pulled myself out.I went to her apt. for lunch yesterday and then to her game and then she stayed at my house for awhile.I think she is trusting me a little more and feeling more comfortable,I just hope I can wait her out.She says she isn't ready for an intamite relationship so she won't date.I'm not asking to have sex with her right now I just want to spend some one on one time.I told her that all I can do is promise her things until I get a chance to show her.By the way her brother remarried his XW a couple of years after their D,so I am hopeing she remembers it's possible.She must feel pretty safe she moves my furniture and things like that and most of her stuff is still there.