Violet thanks,she said again last night that when she has more yes days than no days than that would be good.She started a semi OR talk because of some things broughtup earlier and I flat told her that I was the one that was still here and wasn't the one that was treating her like crap.She also said that she forgave me for the mistakes that I made in our M and I told her she didn't or else she could get past them and quit bringing them up.They wern't that big of a deal mostly not wanting to take 2 kids under 3 on vacation and hunting too much.I tried several times to get her to go away together for a couple of days but she is too scared to fly and didn't want to stay that close to home for a short trip.It all ended well and we sat and just talked before I left.I did tell her that I couldn't promise anything about how long I would wait because I didn't know,alot of it depended on whether she asked me to and how much she gave in return to the R.Then today she called and asked me to lunch.later
