Tbone, I can see your point of view. I wish I had a male relative to talk to but I have no brothers and my father died long ago. When we went to C she was also a woman. C helped keep us together because when we went, I had no intention of staying in M, yet here we are, still M. H's father also died long ago so there is no older male role model on either side of the family. It's probably better for me to come here to the BB when I'm looking for input!
Randy, don't let XW slip back into dreamland. Keep it real!
