Thanks tbone, It was another together all weekend and it went alright.We did our regular stuff friday night and saturday went to eat.Sunday went to XW ballgame and then shopping,I told her it would be cheaper if we just bought groceries for 1 house and she said that I could buy hers then,she knew thats not what I meant.I asked her what was keeping her from coming back and she said she wasn't ready.I told her I was here today and I will be here tomorrow but I couldn't promise that I would be in this situation a year from now.She said I needed to be happy with what I'm getting right now.So the saga continues