A couple of nights ago XW started a OR talk of sorts.She said that an intimate relationship isn't what she whats right now and what she was giving is all she could do right at the moment.I told her that I wouldn't give up tomorrow or next week but I couldn't promise that I could wait a couple more years and then she said that she may feel different in a week or it may be a year we would just have to see.I told her that I loved her and I was still here because I made a promise to her and my kids and her a piece of paper wouldn't change that.It did end on a good note