I have tried to talk to her and as usual OR talks are bad.I think I just need to let her soak things in for a while and see what she does.It seems to me like she is bringing more to my house than what she is moving out and considering she never moved her stuff out in the first place you wouldn't think we were D.I believe that DBing works and has help my R 10 times more than the conseler.Alot of it seems crazy and the one left behind is usually saying no way will that work but it does.Good luck
