I think she is close too and thats why I wished we hadn't ever gotton the D.Her attitude and threats is what forced me into it.It is hard because she was never very touchy touchy like holding hands or anything like that before and now when we need to be easing into a more intimate relationship thats what we need.The AD she is on takes away alot of your sex drive and that may be good until I know she is back for sure and then I can worry about that afterall a few more months I should be able to consider myself a virgin again.Have a great week