You and I both have "weird" ones. What they have told us and they do are polar opposite. Mine is talking about future "us" plans, has done major landscaping herself, talks about our anniversary party several times a week, tells me and shows me how sexy she thinks I am yet just last week said she is very unsure about our relationshipship and doesn't love me. Go figure. Wait her out but also take a chance once in awhile. You have been very conservative with her (I have followed your thread for awhile) maybe it is time for a little change of tactic. No one knows her like you do, go with your gut.